Feed your faith, and your doubts will starve to death.-E.C. McKenzie
First believe what your children tell you...or try to tell you. If they are only hinting at something or sound confused then ask more questions. Mothers, please STOP for a second and LOOK at their eyes and face like you did when they were newborns, remember? And be still. LISTEN.Give them time to find the words to tell you. Your children need your full presence.