Sunday, May 10, 2015

Mothers Day:

Thank you for my children, God! I did the best I could to protect them and it wasn't good enough. I will be forever sorry. 
     Now there is more information available thru social media and the news. I encourage every mother ... If you see something, say something! Believe your child and stand by their side. 
     This is my public service announcement! If you want to know more about how something horrible could actually happen then read my memoir. It will open your eyes. Then...You won't have any questions.
     Order it on Amazon...

Wednesday, May 6, 2015

Tuesday, April 28, 2015


If You Suspect Abuse 
or Need Help Now,
Call 1.888.PREVENT 
or 1-800-4-A-CHILD

Saturday, April 25, 2015


Where do you go to find that space that we all need? First we have to quiet the mind, and that can happen anyplace if you are trained to do so. For me, I can do that in my parked car in the sun! But, to walk into a church...the scene is set!
You are welcome to walk into any Catholic Church in the world and pray...
What is that? Just talk to God. He is waiting for you. Peace be with you.

Friday, April 17, 2015

April is Awareness Month for the Prevention of Child Sexual Abuse:

Give voice...get everyone involved. Ask your faith community to support your endeavors. Have the help number printed in your church bulletin. Each one of us is responsible to protect our children. If you see something, say something. Thank you.  St. Maria Goretti, pray for us.

Monday, April 6, 2015

Writing Prompt:

The first thing I noticed was the empty space in the pack of peppers. It didn't seem to make much of a difference. The pepper family stayed together. I would probably pick one from the middle too...just to see if I could. This picture is the prompt. What don't you see that you want to write about. My title would be,  "this is a Wake Up Call."

Monday, March 30, 2015

Hit By Lightning video:

Go to
Share this video with as many as you can...especially Facebook,friends, teachers, nurses, organizations, universities, high schools, press, public figures, law enforcement and youth programs.


Saturday, March 7, 2015

March 07, 1964

The day it started...

And then after marriage and children...


It was midnight in my hell and I had just destroyed all the evidence. 

Read "Under My Roof ~ A Mothers Story of the Heinous Ctime of Incest."

Thursday, March 5, 2015

Sorrow and Grief:

It is such a privilege to be a mother.
Here is the mother of Christ.  When our children suffer, we too have an indescribable ache in our hearts.  Many of us...too many of us know that ache. The number of children who are molested before the age of 18. One in three girls and one in five boys. THEY have mothers...who suffer when they know this has happened to their child. 
Do they ever forget? No! 

A mother who knows and understands is our Blessed Mother given to us by Jesus himself as He hung on the cross. 

Thank you, Jesus. Since my real mom is deceased now I often (daily) turn to her and ask for comfort and consolation for all those who are suffering in any way from the impact of sexual abuse. 

God bless you in your journey of healing and recovery. Keep hopeful as you deal with this trauma and help someone else along the way.

Sunday, February 22, 2015

End Violence:

One Billion Rising is an important event giving a voice to the survivor and making known the resources in communities.

Monday, February 16, 2015

Breaking the Silence:


One thing I really dislike is when people start talking about things but don't know what they are saying. You know the type that likes to hear the center of attention. Basically they make up.

You are not sure what is happening. 
You think something might be wrong.
Something doesn't feel quite right.
Is something amiss here? Could be.
I'm a mother and what's going on?

"If s mother thinks something is wrong, something is wrong." Btesk the silence. 
Make a report. Tell someone. Protect your family members, neighbors and even strangers.

                   Thank You

Sunday, February 8, 2015

Queen of the Universe:

Tell your children to keep the faith. Our mothers may not always be around for us but Jesus, son of God, gave us His Blessed Mother to comfort and console us. How often I turn to her for consolation. This can be the greatest tool for a survivor. Let children know about her. I keep her on my refrigerator as a reminder to call on her. You too, Please. Amen.

Saturday, January 31, 2015

Saturday, January 24, 2015

How to Spell Trouble:

We all usually know what to do AFTER we recognize a problem. So,this word lived ...becomes a solution . We see children react to being too hungry, angry, lonely or tired. Well, So do you and I. 
Next time-halt! Stop! Think about it and take care of the problem.
     You're welcome,

Thursday, January 22, 2015

Non-profits Profit: a HUGE THANKS❤️


Every Life is a Gift:

My mother probably took this picture and this time she didn't cut  our heads Off.
  I am posting this picture while watching the 'March for Life ' in Washington,DC. 
My mother was told to have an abortion when she was pregnant with my sister. My mother said, "absolutely not! " 
That doctor died before her due date. I was a most difficult delivery for my mother but my sister was the easiest ever. 
I thank God every day for my sister! She brings joy to our family and today is my best friend. 
          We are a PRO-LIFE family!
My grandson is marching today and I am proud of this new generation. Thank you!

Tuesday, January 20, 2015

Read, Write and Talk:

In order to 'Stop the silence' 
start a conversation,
With subjects
Like child sexual abuse,
Wierd  people in the family,
What's normal?

Educate yourself
What would YOU do?
Who would you call?
Do you know how it could happen right under your roof?
Are there people to talk to?
How could this happen?
Have you ever heard of incest or did you look it up?

My book was read in two hours by a court reporter
From the Sirhan Sirhan case
And the Charles Manson trial.

Either read it on line or with e-reader.
The softcover is on Amazon and in book stores .
Read it today!

The royalties from this book are given to
The Survivors Healing Center
Santa Cruz, California