Ruined? I don't think so.
I love it when people make lemonade from lemons.
When something breaks they decorate it!
A sour comment has a sweet side to it.
You get the picture.
We are all broken and we are all beautiful!
The true story is all about how YOU helped someone mend.
YOU have been a shining star in someone's life.
If it weren't for YOU it wouldn't have worked.