the garbage in the big dumpster at the back of the building. It is difficult to make changes.Oh, maybe the first day or week is okay but then...it's over. In order to make a change you need to end something.That means stop doing it.Only you know what "it" is that you must not do anymore. No matter how you change there will be always be the 1 % resistance and you'll question yourself about doing it right. Sounds like a good time for prayer.